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Social Skills

Social Skills

The Importance of Social Skills in the Digital Age: Strategies for Success

Social Skills – In continuation with the series on soft skills and careers, in this episode, Ms. Suchitra Surve talks about the most important and sought-after skills today even in corporate and careers. One skill that should be easy for us is said Humans are social beings.

Social skills should come very naturally to us but what we see today is social skills are the only skills that are most difficult skills for most teenagers and individuals. So, in this episode, we will discuss and talk about social skills.

Is social skill an ability to talk to people, socialize, attend party have fun? It is everything. What we are talking about is the ability to talk to people, interact with people, and connect with them. This is what social skills are; it is just not about having conversational skills or empathy.

It’s a combination of both Somebody might ask why I need social skills. We are social human beings, we live in a society, and we are all interconnected for better relationships, better opportunities better peace of mind, and happiness social skills are inevitable.

How do you know whether you have or don’t have social skills?

  • Do you feel the need to leave the conversation in a hurry?
  • Do you have trouble maintaining eye contact when talking with others?
  • Do you smile too little because of nervousness or sometimes too much?
  • Do you slouch? Keep your head down?
  • Do you speak softly or too fast?
  • Do you cross my arms and legs?

If you have said yes to more than two of the above sentences then definitely you have certain issues regarding social skills. So, let’s understand why we shy away. Obviously one of the biggest reasons is excessive anxiety about speaking and consciousness of self.

Why does this happen? Maybe because we have fear of being judged and fear of ridicule or even making mistakes but the biggest is what will people say about me? These are the issues that generally stop us from being social.

A quick way to overcome this obstacle, is first, identify what are you avoiding once you have identified that rank the situation and the anxiety. Try to figure out what will be the worst that will happen. Next is to predict, how long will you be anxious and what will happen next.

Once that is done try to figure out your safety behaviours which means what kind of things you do or avoid and then try and eliminate them and the last will be practice. Remind yourself of the rational responses that you can give.

Once you have made the right contact. It is important that you also make the first impression. Maintain eye contact and maintain a smile, keep a positive attitude maintain your energy, and be approachable. Once you show these signs it is easier for the other person to come and talk to you. Once that happens breaking the ice and taking the conversation ahead is much easier.

To increase social skills it is important that you really socialize and participate in any of the social events. One of the most important aspects of social skills is thinking before speaking. So, think and speak, and adapt yourself to the situation to make the conversation impactful and long-lasting.

Once you’re done this you will be more social people will be looking forward to meeting you and interact with you. Thus ensuring you have the right kind of life, lifestyle people, and further opportunities

Frequently Asked Questions For Social Skills

1. What are social skills, and why are they important?

Social skills refer to the ability to communicate, interact, and collaborate effectively with others. They are crucial for building relationships, succeeding in the workplace, and navigating social situations.

2. Can social skills be developed and improved over time?

Yes, social skills are learned behaviors, and with practice and effort, they can be developed and enhanced.

3. What are some common social skills that individuals should focus on improving?

Common social skills include active listening, empathy, communication, conflict resolution, teamwork, and adaptability.

4. How can I improve my communication skills in social settings?

Improving communication skills involves practicing active listening, clear and concise expression, and non-verbal communication awareness.

5. What role do social skills play in the workplace?

Social skills are essential in the workplace for building effective teams, resolving conflicts, networking, leadership, and career advancement.

6. Are there specific techniques for managing social anxiety and shyness?

Techniques include exposure therapy, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), mindfulness, and gradual desensitization to social situations.

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